Do you have the “Confidence”
Recently i have been talking to many people about their confidence level. Well alot of them seems to have some doubts about themselves on ther will they survive in this industry. All along, i have always been protrayed as someone who has high esteem and confidence about myself. But does anyone knows that actually i was once a tiny little boy where i had super low confidence and esteem about myself. In fact, i think last time i was kind of feeling inferior most of the time.
It was really only until i came into this industry that i managed to be who i am today. I dare not say that i am super successful now but i can proudly say that i am a very confident person today! I believe confidence is something that will keep you going no matter what happen. It will be able to transform your actions and behavior in a way you can’t imagine yourself (In a good way)
Therefore if i can share a few tips on how to have the confidence you desired, here are the following ways:
1) Dress well. Personally i believe very strongly that how you dress says alot about yourself. It’s about whether do you respect yourself well enough to dress up for the occassion or profession. Eg: If you are a make-up artist then you have to have a very nicely done make up (flawless). If you are a hairstylist, you also better to have a stylo hairstyle yourself. So if you want to be a financial consultant, then you better dress like one! Human forms impression in the first 3 minutes and one of the things that can capture a good impression is the dressing.
2) Well-groomed. What i mean by well-groomed is to have a neat haircut, clean shave, smell good and looking smart. When people praise your good look, your internal self-esteem immediately shoot up!
3) Stand straight. Though this is simple but often than not, this is what most people are lacking. Most people i know walk with their shoulder slouching. It looks like a dead body walking around. People normally walk this way when they are tired hence if you don’t start walking straight then you will always feel tired about your work. Have you ever seen Obama or Lee Kwan Yew slouching while giving their speech?
4) Energy Level. Having high energy level is very powerful. It will be able to transfer to others and influence them according to what you want. A lot of people like to mix around with high energy people because it also sub-consciously making them hype up. If you ever noticed the popular people around you, they are often those that possesses very high energy level. Seems like they operates like energizer battery!
5) Smile. Putting up a big smile whenever you meet people makes them very happy to see you because it will force them to smile back to you. Through each smile, the body actually releases some form of energy to the brain signaling that it is happy. Hence to make sure that you want to feel good about yourself, just remember to smile more!
One thing for sure is that confidence is not in-born hence anyone and everyone has the ability to have the kind of high confidence if you want to. If i can do it, so can you! Well i believed there are many other methods available to gain confidence and the above are what i’m using. Hope it can be of some help to you. If anyone have other suggestions, please give your feedback below so that others can also learn!
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