How To Start Living?
In life, we live and grow with problems. Without problems, there will be no growth. It is also the problems that creates lots of worries and stress for people. Some people handle it well, some don’t. Hence the questions to ask is ‘How do i stop worrying and Start Living’
If you have read dale carnegie book “How to stop worrying and start living’, you would figure out the ways to handle your worries. For the benefits of those who have not read this book, i will share the first few part with you.
At the start, he shared with us one quote from this guy, Thomas Carlyle, who had lead a life free of worry: “Our main business is not to see what lies dimly at a distance, but to do what lies clearly at hand” Basically what this sentence means is that all of us should treat the future as today and live in a day-tight compartments. Focusing all our attention with all the intelligence, all your enthusiasml, on doing today’s work suberbly today.
People around the world seem to worry about their tomorrow even when today has not ended yet. This is especially true in Singapore where people are rushing day by day and worrying things for the future. Hence one of the methods is to make the best of each day, treating it as if there is no tomorrow. Once you learn to treasure the present, you will appreciate the future.
He also shared with us the magic formula of Willies H.Carrier. Always remember to ask yourselves these questions when you faced trouble:
1) What is the worst that could possibly happen if you never solve the problem?
2) Prepare to mentally accept the worse
3) Calmly try to improve upon the worst
By the time you have the answers to these three questions, you would have realised that your worries are gone! It’s really amazing. Personally after reading these, i try on myself the next day and i found out that the worries that i have are totally unnecessary. Now i’m glad that i can live happier each day with the magic formula!
Someone said this before: Those who do not know how to fight worry die young” and I wondered how many people feel that way.
I totally agreed to this statement and felt that life is too short to worry for everything. Let nature takes its course. Health is more important!
Hereby i strongly urge everyone that is reading this to stop all your worries and be thankful for what God has given you for all the peace and love. Don’t take things for granted anymore and be grateful. With this, i hope you can start to live!
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